There’s no way to tell by looking if a person has an STD.
Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) are more common than you may think. People can pass these infections to each other during unprotected sex — vaginal, oral or anal.
If you’re sexually active, you may be at risk, even if you believe you’re in a monogamous relationship.
Here are some signs to spot if your partner has STIs:
- Displays any of these symptoms
There are several known types of sexually transmitted diseases, and each comes with its own symptom profile. Some symptoms, however, appear in some combination across several of the most common STDs, including:
- Unusual discharge from the penis or vagina
- Sores or warts on the genital area
- Painful or frequent urination
- Itching and redness in the genital area
- Blisters or sores in or around the mouth
- Abnormal vaginal odour
- Anal itching, soreness, or bleeding
If your partner displays any of these symptoms, it’s time both of you get tested. While it’s possible that one or more of these symptoms may not be STD-related, an STD is a likely cause. And either way, they should still be checked out by a medical professional.
- Withdrawal from sexual affection
may not feel like engaging in sex or sexual activity, even with a partner we love. When your partner suddenly deviates from your relationship’s typical sexual pattern or withdraws from sex completely, however, it could be a sign to watch out for.
This may indicate your partner is trying to hide symptoms from you. Some STD symptoms, including several associated with gonorrhoea or chlamydia, are visible in the genital area, so withdrawing from sex could be an attempt to prevent you from seeing these symptoms firsthand.
- There may not be any signs at all
Some STDs can be present with absolutely no signs at all. Your partner could have an STD and genuinely not even know it. If that’s the case, then there are no symptoms or behaviour changes to necessarily watch out for.
That’s why it is important to go for annual testing for gonorrhoea and chlamydia for any sexually active individual.
